It Is Always Better To Forgive
It is always better to forgive those who sinned against us. Not only because God enjoins us, but because it can bring sickness to us when we do not forgive.
We are all sinners. No one is righteous in the sight of God; no, not one. When we point our index finger to accuse our neighbors, more fingers point to us. When we condemn our neighbors, we literally condemn ourselves.
As stated above, all are sinners, and have not done what the law of God requires. As such, we do same thing as what the criminals do. So, when we condemn our fellowmen, we condemn ourselves because we do the same thing and are guilty of it.
You may think that you are less sinful than your neighbors. But there is no such thing as small sin and big sin. When you obey the nine commandment perfectly, and yet violate the least part of the tenth, you are still guilty of violating the whole ten commandments. The laws are not independent and separate from each other. They are like rope strands that are intricately entwined and permeably connected and knotted together permanently that destroying the least one affects all of it.
So we cannot rightly condemn our neighbors, for we are also sinners like them. So let us understand them, and forgive them in their mischiefs, for like us, they do not also know what they are doing.
Most of us are like that. Most of the time, we do not know what we are doing. We commit mistakes most of the time, and hurt our neighbors, not only in our bad deeds, but also in our unkind words, and in our malicious thoughts. We were conceived in sin, and we inherited the sin nature of our parents. We are all wallowing in the quagmire of sin – precariously popping up and down in a quicksand beyond coming out. But thanks be to God – he gave his only begotten Son, the Lord Jesus Christ to save us from that inextricable dilemma.
We should be thankful that God saves us from the curse of sin, and let us show this gratitude by forgiving our neighbors as God has forgiven us. We were all created in the very image of God. We are his masterpiece of creation, and we are all children of God. We are all brothers and sisters in Christ, and we should love each other as God loves us all.
It is always better to forgive our fellowmen. It brings peace, joy and happiness, and good health too. Animosity, anger, and other pent-up feelings are vented, and heavy burdens in the heart are lightened when we forgive those who sinned against us. When our conscience convicts us, we lose the invigorating and rejuvenating effects of sound sleep, and maladies and afflictions follow. When we forgive our fellowmen, our prayers are able to penetrate the ceilings of our homes and goes directly to the throne of God. When we forgive, God hears our prayers, and grant all the desires of our hearts. When we forgive our fellowmen, God will also forgive us our sins.
